The Importance of ListeningListening is a hugely important skill in the world of work. Its a key part of effective communication. All too often we focus on delivering messages, and fail to really listen to others. To be better leaders, managers and colleagues, we should get better at listening to others. SIER Hierarchy of Active ListeningThe SIER Hierarchy of active listening details four key stages required for effective listening. As with all models associated with active listening, its purpose is to help the listener be a better, more effective listener who really hears what is being said, connects with the individual with whom they are communicating and builds effective relationships. The model is a hierarchical model meaning that each stage builds on the stage before it. While the model is sometimes used for training in the sales arena, it is helpful in all walks of life. The stages of the model are: Sensing, Interpreting, Evaluating and Responding. 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Making eye contact, adopting open body language, being considerate and receptive and leaving pauses in conversation will all help the person youre communicating with fully communicate what they have to say, meaning there is more information you can sense. Though not technically sensing asking helpful questions may also be useful at this stage. InterpretingThe second stage of the SIER Hierarchy of Active Listening is to interpret the information youve sensed in stage 1. When youre interpreting what youve sensed, you might want to consider questions like: What is the context that the conversation is taking place in? What are the overarching patterns of behavior? What are the rules of communicating in the culture youre operating within? Its important at this stage to really align your thoughts with the person youre communicating with. Its also important to wait for the person youre communicating with to finish their message before starting to interpret it. You dont want to form your opinions too soon because. If you do, youll be less effective at sensing new information in the remainder of the conversation. Your entire goal in this stage is to ensure that youre understanding of the messages really aligns to the senders meaning. You can improve your ability to interpret by focusing on the overall social and political context within which you are operating, and by getting to know the people you are communicating with. EvaluatingThe third stage of the SIER Hierarchy of Active Listening is to evaluate the messages youve received and interpreted. Again, its hugely important to wait until the person you are communicating with has finished their message before forming an opinion on any of the content. In many instances what happens in conversations is that as soon as one person decides they disagree with something being said (by evaluating it), they switch off from the remainder of the conversation or start to discuss that specific point. They dont allow the person they are speaking with to complete their statement. This is counterproductive for effective listening and relationship building. Evaluation can be improved through practice, and through mindfully searching for areas of interest in the communication, as opposed to areas of disagreement. RespondingThe last stage of the SIER Hierarchy of Active Listening is to respond to the messages youve sensed, interpreted and evaluated. By this stage you should have a clear view of what the person youre communicating with has been aiming to communicate. You now need to respond to them. Your responses will take the form of both verbal and non-verbal communications. Its important to remember that your communications back to them at this stage have multiple purposes. Your aim is to move the conversation forward, show them that youve understood and interpreted what theyve said and demonstrate that youve connected with the emotional sub-text of what theyve communicated. Its possible to get better at responding with practice. Questioning is a powerful tool in this stage, as is playing back what youve heard in the same language used by the person youre communicating with. You may also aim to physically mirror them, nod and provide verbal assurances (e.g. yes, ok, I see) throughout your conversations. Learning MoreListening helps build connection, trust and relationships. When people feel listened to and really heard they feel understood, which is a hugely powerful social feeling. In fact, social belonging is one of the key human needs in Maslows Hierarchy of Needs, an important content theory of human motivation. Of course, listening is about much more than just words. As Mehrabians model shows, tone and body language are hugely important. There are many great models of listening that we have yet, though weve only written about a few including the six facets of effective listening. The World of Work Project ViewThe SIER Hierarchy of Active Listening is a useful theoretical model to be aware of in the workplace. We particularly like the fact that it calls out the need to be mindful of what the people you are communicating with are saying and to be aware of the context you are operating with. All too often as humans we race to convey our views, without taking the time to listen to what others have to say, and this model encourages us not to do this. Overall we like what the model is trying to do, but we think its a bit difficult to use in the moment without practice. We fully recommend that individuals seek to improve their listening skills as well as their sensing / observation skills. We also consider questioning skills an important capability for individuals to seek to improve as these too can greatly increase your ability to actively listen. Our Podcast.Our Podcast is a great way to learn more about hundreds of fascinating topics from around the world of work. Apple Spotify Others SourcesLyman K. Steil, Larry Lee Barker, Kittie W. Watson. Effective Listening: Key to Your Success. Addison-Wesley, 1983 LinkThe World of Work Project: The SIER Hierarchy of Active Listening: Become a Better Listener FeedbackWere a small organization who know we make mistakes and want to improve them. Please contact us with any feedback you have on this post. Well usually reply within 72 hours. |